Saturday, December 3, 2011

i have lots of things in mind...

I want to do this and that!

I want to have it and that!

I don't like it nor that!

whatttah....!


If you have lot's of things in mind, brtter choose your very choice to less your worries and stress!




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I think I'm fully changed!

In what?

Uhm...

as a human being?

Hehehehe

Nope, I think!



Maybe it's just a pretending stat!

Nope as well!


I know this is me!

I'm such a bubbly-individual!


A talker, funny and a joker!

I'm your friend.


I don't know!

I'm just looking around!

Friday, October 21, 2011

Getting into something TODAY!






THIS IS SOMETHING ME!



One thing I hate is having an addictive attitude in all aspects.
Either to music, food or crafts I can't stop my self w/ my addictive attitude.

For now, I am into crochet.
I love doing such crafts.
What's worst, even in the car,
in the office
(while calling and selling mobile phones over the phone)

I started 2009, before I give birth.
It seems too complicated to see how does it is happening while every stroke of the hooks makes it's perfect chain.
I've tried it once to see if I can stand this kind of craft.
Then slowly but surely am wanting to learn more from it.

How to make long chains, circles, make turns to make another set of chains. then finally I had my first made crochet- crochet ring.
I don't have any pictures at all since it's been a while. But it is very funny since I've never had the chance to know this craft when I was in high or college days.

Though much of confusions and all questions in mind, I decided to learn from it with the help of my fiance's sister Elbhie.
She is really good on this stuff and seen her dedication doing the crafts as order from her work..
I daily watch her hobby while doing my own hand on my own hook that we've bought from the market w/ my new crochet ball threads.
!
Slowly I can make my own stuffs! I just copy the looks but make my own hook-ups and chains. Though so much trial and error, I've had my rings, purse and all of them don't have the so called professional touch after all I'm just a beginner.

Late month of the year 2009, December, I've sold roughly P300-500 worth of stuffs but not my cause since fiance's hand do it all.
I've continued doing this artsy until first quarter of 2010 until March. And then stop it since I think of some other stuffs getting because I'm getting busy with my child.

I got back when my supervisor had requested an open-head-top bonnet to be used for their vacation in Baguio. I've been paid me P180.
It's worth it though since that time I'm really such a beginner.

Then my child's young god-mother order her Pink-Fuchsia make up bag worth P500 that she
personally offer it's price according to how the bag looks so elegant w/ some beads on it.

Unfortunately, I've stopped doing this hobby up until I've been too very busy w/ other campaigns for mobile and broadband offers.

Couple of months lefts and passed by until I've tried to offer earrings in the office just within this month again..

I thought, I've forgotten how to do it again, but I was wrong which good thing I've improved my chains and finished products.

I can make my own pattern without any guides, (I really start by just watching , like with Music, I am very good just listening to it and can even copy same notes without any pieces.)


Welcome back to crochet hobby, good job since within this month only I've sold nearly a P1000 bucks which means I've already met my target to return my starter budget.

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What else I would like to get back with.
My MUSIC talent.

I've been a piano teacher and even earn BIG with that.
But since I have lots of things to consider I've given it up.
My child is already 2 years old, and that's how long I've been hooked to crochet while hooked-dead with my fingers-hand-most-talent.

My child is a boy and I want him to practice and some talent like Piano and I would love to be his own teacher.'

Of course we know crochet is not for boys,
so totally, I would never initiate him to learn about it when he grow up.

I would love him to be in the music industry or even have dance class, cause he has good moves and grooves while music plays around.

* * * * *
Other's I'm thinking of (Not for Sure!)

A full time mom!
Thinking of leaving my job and stay at home to take care of my child.
Do all the chores available, since I'm not really into it.
I've grew up with my aunt's and maids who's doing all the household chores.

Luckily I've been to a boarding house to learn things I really can't do at home since we have other people to do all that.

There, I've learned to wash clothes, under wears, everything about washing things and stuffs, eating on a right diet with Vegetarian food for 2 years.
Keep track of my things since we have designated lockers.
Be friend with all the people available around.

Back to the main point!
I felt being unfair to my child since when he needs me I am not with him,( bed time, dinner, teaching easy stuffs and all)

I work night shift and went home at 4AM,
I've always seen him deep sleeping in front of the fan and not beside his father.

It breaks my heart since I want to be with my little one in his age since when grow up, like me it would be very hard to cope up with the things I haven't done and teach him how to do things right.

Mother's are best known for what's right for their child, not saying anything about fathers but more likely we offer more guidance and protection especially for our boys and girls.

Main thing, I felt so empty being a mother since I've never experience even a whole week to play and chat with my Little boy.

Thank God he is very intelligent and loving to everyone.
Keen to color and flash cards, though he speaks more of our language he also knew lots of English words and funny stuffs.
Though we cannot ensure bad words that he absorb hearing from other people, we make sure that he will eliminate those words and never try to say it again.





Still I can't get out of this job.


I need it, my family need it as well!

I need OT..



OT!

It's performance based!
Depending on how many sales do you have for the whole shift...
It's very tiring though worth it for the paid OT hours.

I need rest, that's all!

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For Now, this will be all.
Being busy is very nice, so I wont be bored. ;)

Monday, October 10, 2011

what can I tell here....

I fell down the stairs this afternoon.
I felt cold skin and felt like having sprain on my lower left legs and all.
I felt like I have a heavy arm on my left since when it happened, I have my child w/ me.
Good thing he's safe and he was never hurt.
I am so much thankful still though I felt like my bones were cracked or dislocated,
still It semmed to be quite fine.
A little pain here and there.
Just told my Team Lead about it and ask that if something goes wrong
or felt so bad about it
I'll run to the clinic to have some pain killers.

I'ts my lunch time at work.
I only have 1 sale - a mobile contract.
Did check my emails and all, nothing important.
It's been souple of months when I last check my Social networks.
Seems I've been left behind.
Bt since I'm considering other things to do first, I think it's okay.
I can catch up esp. Twitter and Facebbok pages.
Just wondering who's accessing my Multiply account since
there alot of notifications and replies on my account.

I only have an hour to express my mindblowing activites and all.
I'm eating my hot cup of Nissin Beef noodles and my Skyflakes crackers.
I don't have appetite since I felt something because of what had happened this afternoon before reporting for work.

I miss my family, My Immediate family I mean. (father, motehr and brothers)
Out bonding and finghting LOL.
Soemtimes, there are some disadvantages having you own family since you have to go w/ your own and even go away from your first family.
The saddest is when they are far like cities away from your location, there are limited times only that you can get intouch w/ time even via help of great technollogy at this age.
But still very happy, thankful and the same times very blest as I have the most brightest and Intelligent Chev in the whole world.
That's my big big advantage that other's dont have ;)


I just wanted to have a happy life.

Haaaaffff...

My noodles are about to run out and I only have 27 more minutes to finish this blog.
My gulp Jucie friom 711 is already through.
I felt sleepy and very heavy eyes and felling all at the same time w/ my sprain aching to death.

Lucky, I'm not late for work, though I walk slowly and very very keen on it since I don't want to feel too much pain on my left body parts.

I wish I coud blog regularly.
I could post my crochet finish products.
I don't sell unless it has been asked to be sold for my friends.
I don't give it to anyone else though since I want to see my pieces of crafts.
If I'll sell them, I'll never seen them again and what's worst, I might stop doing this hobby that sometimes awe my child to play with since I relaly wnat to finish my piece at firstly started.

I wish I could let my tab to be fixed soon and buy a mobile broadmand stick.


Sadly I have to pay all my debts first so I wont have any worries before I will end this year 2011.
See you next time I visit and when I have time and initiative to do this again regularly.

Love you Elckris Chev (my little boy)
Love you Blogger.

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Mahirap isipin na dahil sa mga bagay pinakaiingatan mo
magiging delikado ang buhay mo at kapakanan ng pamilya mo.

Hindi ko maisip na sa ganoon kabilis na pangyayari magiging kadelikado ang lagay ng buhay
ni Mike (Michael Valencia). Pinsang buo ni Jan (tatay ni Chev-na anak ko).

Who can imagine that he just drop his son at school and heading for work when he was
caught by these bandits trying to get his 3months old Ryder 150cc single motorcycle by Kawasaki. When had the chance to run and grab it's key, he was gun shot at his lower extremities thrice and one at his back. Too late for the cops to respond as they are sleeping in their quarters.

He was bought by a taxi driver at Amang Rodriguez hospital at Bayan Marikina City.
Thanks to young couples riding the taxi to allow him use their ride and have him taken care by the hospital crews.

It still need to check the bullet on his stomach as it is unstable so surgeons cannot do any actions to operate Mike. Hope that he will not get any infections and any heart problems since no pain reliver or anything is given only meds to keep him stable until now.

Only strong hold na d prayers and love that we can offer to guide him though since his children needs him as their jusy young and not even know what's really happening to their father.

Mike, keep in touch with God above, you cna do it, we are all here for you! Strong hold to Gods hands and never give up!

------ Updates at facebook.com/phebeeunice or
Phebe Eunice Rodriguez and @ebehpecinue at twitter

thanks Guys... Prayers please. ;)

Monday, July 25, 2011

Sweet Quotes and Story

It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

At the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet.

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage

The fate of love is that it always seems too little or too much.

Love waits for one thing, the right moment.

There is no difference between a wise man and a fool when they fall in love.

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched – they must be felt with the heart.

Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes…just be an illusion.

You don’t love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her.

Drink to me only with thine eyes, And I will pledge with mine.

We can not do great things. We can only do little things with great love.

To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.

Where there is great love, there are always wishes.

My heart smiled when you kissed my lips. What a sweet surprise.

That it shall never come again is what makes life so sweet.

The truth is that life is delicious, horrible, charming, frightful, sweet, bitter, and that is everything.

Patience is bitter, but it bears sweet fruit.

It is terrible to be alone, and it is terrible to be in love, but one is cheaper than the other.

A man cannot reason with the woman he loves: he cares about her too much.

Don’t hold to anger, hurt or pain. They steal your energy and keep you from love.

A woman either loves or hates; she knows no medium.

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.

Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity.

There are some errors so sweet that we repent them only to bring them to memory.

Work like you don’t need the money. Love like you’ve never been hurt. Dance like nobody’s watching.

Love means never having to say you are sorry.

It is difficult to know at what moment love begins; it is less difficult to know that it has begun.

Love is the compass of life.

Love is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play by the rules, then you must forget the rules and play from your heart.

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From the very beginning, the girl's family strongly objected on her dating him. They objected because of his family background and felt that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him.

Due to her family pressure, the couple quarreled very often. Although the girl love the guy deeply, she would always seek confirmation of his love by asking him,
"How deep is your love for me?"
As the guy is not good with his words, this often result in the girl to be very upset. These various reasons causes the girl to vent her anger on him often. The guy endured the suffering in silence.

After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated and decided to further his studies overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the girl,
"I'm not very good with words, but I simply know I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I'll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?"

The girl agreed and touched by the guy's determination, the family finally gave in and agreed to let them get married. So before he left the country, they got engaged.

The girl entered the working society, whereas the guy continued his studies overseas. They kept their love strong through emails and phone calls. Even though it's hard, neither of them never thought of giving up.

One day, while the girl was on her way to work, she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realized that she was badly injured. She saw her mum crying and wanted to comfort her. But she realized that she could only muster a sigh. She has lost her voice...

The doctors explanation was that the impact of the accident on her brain caused her to lose her voice. When she heard her parents comforting her but she was unable to reply them at all, she broke down.

During the stay in the hospital, other than crying silently there was nothing else she could do. Upon reaching home, life seemed to go on normally. However, whenever the phone rang, the ringtone seemed to pierce through her heart. She had no wish of letting the guy know about her condition. She did not want to be a burden to him. Hence, she wrote a letter to him informing him that she does not wish to wait for him to come back any longer.

Following that, she sent the engagement ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions of reply and countless phonecalls... The girl could only drown her sorrows in tears as she ignored them all.

The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything and be happy. With a new environment, the girl picked up sign language and started a new life. She told herself everyday that she must forget about the guy.


One day, her friend informed her that he's back from abroad. She requested her friend not to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn't anymore news of him.

A year later, her friend came back with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding. The girl was shattered. When she opened the letter, she saw shocked to see her name as the bride. Just when she was about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her. He used sign language to tell her this,
"I've spent a year's time to learn sign language just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You. With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled."



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Earthquake! 5.2 Magnitude deep!

Earthquake! 5.2 Magnitude deep!

Everything seems to be ok while we're waiting for our next break to land.
But all of a sudden this unusual feeling had stopped us taking calls.

I then text my friend and family immediately to alert them though it's not that alarming.

M 5.9, Luzon, Philippines
Monday, July 25, 2011 17:15:41 UTC
Tuesday, July 26, 2011 01:15:41 AM at epicenter

Depth: 35.00 km (21.75 mi)

Check this website of countries who'd experience the same butin diferent magnitudes.
http://earthquake.usgs.gov/earthquakes/recenteqsww/Quakes/usc00053yd.php

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Best of all, Pray without ceasing!
That's the most powerful among anything else.

God Bless the Philippines!

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Coffee, Water, Sweets and other food stuffs in a callcenter... What will you take?

What's with COFFEE?
I know there's an addictive effect for it has caffaine but it's all in the mind! It's on how many times you would like to drink cups of coffee in a day or you're just happy doing it.

Some says it has anti-oxidants.
Were I believe it kills stress, nothing else.

Coffee, coffee, coffee...

At my job, It is free coffee -- everyday!
You can take as much cups of coffee all the way!

But in my case, I get numbed when I'm overtaking numbers of coffee cups.
Some were pulpitating, felt like floating, and get energized.

Coffee is good in the morning so you'll get teh energy that you need atleast it will wake your sleeping nerves.
But i don't think it's advisable that you take coffee everyday-0-
instead just take 8 glasses of water.
It will help wash our toxins away.
It will help us regulate our vowels.
It will keep our skin glow.
It helps prevent Urinary Tract Infection, esp. if you are a fan of salty foods or some sweets.

You cna have warm, cold or hot water theraphy even while taking calls.
Atleast nothing to worry of what it has (minerals), unlike coffe that it has sugar, caffaine, whatever......

But, I still take coffee sometimes, but not always as often...
I don'r drink it like water-- maybe I consider coffe as a cocktail--
well mannered coffee drinker ;)

Other FOOD STUFFS!

Junkies--
Chips, Dips, Crackers, Sweets, Canned Goods---

These junkies are killing us all without noticing it.
Since it has MSG that drives the food magical tastes.

I'm saying dont eat some nad don't ever take 'em, but be considerate enough of your health risks!

You know what you'll get from it--
UTI, Hepatitis, Kidney Failure and the likes.

Still junkfood is televised as not good for the health but manufacturers
are given permitions to operate and sell their stuffs.

Just like the cigars that is being banned to other countries and being sold at high price and taxable as well.

I just can't understand if it's banned then why it's being sold?
Companies should have been very considerate of people's health risks--
Well in this world I know being self considerate and your benefits is everyones's concern and so why this things aired and happening.

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Life style in a call center:
Night life is dead (we work mostly at night shift)
Day Drunk (after shift is our drink hours-not for me)
Money making kills (over time over ruling)
Health Risks (vices and lack of rest or vitamins to take)

There are lots of lifestyle a callcenter agent can have, but it still depends in each individual which and what their about to take--


Thankful to my mom that I was from high-end schools and so I have my own considerations, my own will and I don't have groups and proud of my self control.


This is a good choice for me to keep--
NO to VICES!!! ;) peace everyone!

O.T. O.T. O.T. Advantages adn Disadvantages

O.T. hours, O.T. experience, O.T. days w/ sleeping habbits!

When absentism rate goes UP and UP and UP, Over Time rules.
It is affecting everything- the company, account, hours, finances, SPIF's, and the people etc.
Why do you think this happens every time?
I think because of the people who doesn't have control with themselve or for those who can't help it because they badly need it.
Well whatever their purpose are - STILL it affects everthing!

I admit! - -
I had these issues before and now doing my best to avoid it.
This is for the sake of fareness - -

2 Types of O.T.
** Allowed O.T.
-payed by clients and allowed by the company

** Forced O.T.
-taken fromt eh revenue of the company and teh client allowed us to so since we're lacking the hours they've required


Advantages and Disadvantages!

ADVANTAGES
> you are paid for it- (MAINLY for the money)
> an added benefit that really helps
> best for those needing extras esp. to those who have families
> for people who's workaholic and the head of the family
> it covers your taxes for the cut-off


DISADVANTAGES
> health issues: back pain, sore throat, stress, lack of sleep
> more pay - more tax deductions
> cover the hours needed for the account
> superiors are alarmed and get dng from the clients
> no family time
> no social life
> no time to go to church

There are lots of advantages and disadvantages we can tell!
But if we have self control, we will hit the target-
Not only for the hours, but even for the sales!

Personal View
Whatever it takes, it seems to be okay to have Over Time-
Make sure to manage your time, health, and space between you, family and your work.
If you cannot balance everything- whalah!
You might get sick, you can be late, you may be out of your job and most of all, family problems!

There's no perfect life, no perfect timing, no perfect job or anything in perfect; but if you think it will be perfect as to what perfect is all about, then so, it will be!

Many are workaholic due to money making, head of the family or just killing the time, but it doesn't mean that we go along with them as you'll get sick in teh end.

Trust your Job
Love your Job
Be Honest with your Job
Keep your Job
and say Yes to your Job

Maybe these are some key words to be alive bad kickin' for it!

If things don't work out, then probably you have to find another job that will best suits you and your capabilities... (sorry)



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Comments about this are accepted not for stupid things please!
Just be realistic and be honest w/ yourself!



Next TOPIC: COFFEE!!! What it makes you get a coffee after you have finished your 1st cup?

Wednesday, March 9, 2011




"following rules only to avoid punishment" - lowest level...
"following rules because they are right and good" - highest level...

Hitting begets hitting -
as well as anger, revenge, and the breakdown of communication between individuals!

NUMBER 1 RULE IN DISCIPLINE!!!

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Parental behavior must change before their children's behavior is most likely to change, and parents must become disciplined parents before their children will most likely become self-disciplined!
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WHAT NOT TO DO... In Solving the Problems with your little one.
1 Hitting your child only gives her permission to hit others in similar circumstances.

2. Don't beg or bribe.

3. Don't label.

4. Don't humiliate or punish when child is clinging.

5. Don't get upset when your child clings.

6. Don't give mixed messages.

7. Don't make sickness a convenient way to get special attention.

8. Don't loose control.

9. Don't nag.

10. Don't spank your child for going into the street.

11. Don't feel rejected.

12. Don't punish your child's mistake.

13. Don't feel rejected.

14. Don't overreact.

15. Don't overly punish.

16. Don't demand cooperation

17. Don't make clean up painful.

18. Don't avoid cleanup.

19. Don't neglect to enforce the rules.

20. Don't give in to noise.

21. Don't use threats and fears.

22. Don't talk to your child from a distance.

23. Don't ground.

24. Don't rely on medication alone.

25. Don't instill fear of people.

26. Don't get angry and yell at your child for interruption.

27. Don't punish messiness.

28. Don't interrupt people especially your child.

29. Don't compare your child to there or siblings (never-ever)
(each has their own uniqueness and behavior)

30. Don't lie to your child.

31. Don't test your child's honesty-tendency they will lie back at you.

32. Don't label your child as "liar."

33. Don't take lying personally.

34. Don't expect perfection.

35. Don't back down if your child resists.

36. Don't punish your child for not following directions.

37. Don't punish for occasionally sharing.

38. Don't offer food rewards for eating.

39. Don't give in to his desire to overeat.

40. Don't give treats when your child is upset.

41. Don't consistently follow food while you're watching TV.

42. Don't give junk foods a snacks.

43. Don't make fun of your child if he i overweight.

44. Don't laugh or encourage the use of no.

45. Don't loose your cool.

46. Don't give in.

47. DON'T HIT!

48. Don't let your child control bedtime.

49. Don't treat or spank.

50. Don't be a historian.

51. Don't meet resistance to anger.

52. Don't overreact to mistakes.

53. Don't respond to tattling.

54. Don't set up one child to tattle on another.

55. Don't hold grudges.

56. DON'T ASK YOUR CHILD WHETHER HE STOLEN SOMETHING!

57. Don't hesitate to search your child.

58. Don't teach backtalk.

59. Don't punish backtalk.

60. Don't play a power game.

61. Don't reason or explain during the tantrum.

62. Don't belittle your child.

63. Don't make your child pay for the tantrum.

64. Don't throw a tantrum yourself.

65. Don't ask the wrong questions.

66.Don't punish toileting accidents.

67. Don't let your child sit in the front seat.

68. Don't make promises you may not fulfill.

69. Don't let your child dictate your agenda.

70. Don't take your child for shopping for longer than she can tolerate.

71. Don't demand your child do something "now."

72. Don't reward impatience.

73. Don't whine yourself.

74. Don't give in to whining.

75. Don't angry with your child.

76. Don't frighten your child.

***Shyness is not a problem on and of self***

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Being a mother is not as easy as 1-2-3 or A-B-C.
It is a job where you explore your capabilities, child's behavior and surroundings.
It is an exciting experience that everyday you have different experiences with your child along with his needs and wants to seek your attention.

At the end of the day, no matter how painful your headache's,
your child pays all the effort and tiring job you've done!

*i love you Elckris Chev!

by Phebe Eunice Rodriguez

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Truely for everyone...

Truely effective discipline is all about education, not punishment.

-Dr. Michael Meyerhoff, Ed.D.

Avoid being a historian!
Leave bad behaviour to history and don't keep bringing it up.
What's done is done.
Working toward a better futuremakes more sense than dwelling on the past.

Empathy is the ability to identify with and understand other's situation, feelings, and motives.

Ask someome to do things; DON'T DEMAND!